Hey, Love!

There are days when even the smallest tasks feel impossible, when your energy feels drained before the day even begins. On those days, taking the first step forward can feel like climbing a mountain. But here’s the thing… you don’t have to tackle the whole mountain at once. Sometimes, all it takes is one small step to shift the momentum and remind yourself that progress, no matter how small, is still progress. 

If today feels like one of those days, here’s a tiny step guide to help you move forward, even when energy is hard to come by.

1. Start with a 10-Second Task

On days when everything feels overwhelming, focus on something that takes just 10 seconds. It could be standing up, drinking a sip of water, or stretching your arms. These micro-actions remind you that even the smallest step counts… and sometimes, they’re all you need to get started. 

2. Set an “I Can” Goal

Replace overwhelming “I should” thoughts with an “I can” action. Instead of, “I should clean the house,” think, “I can clear off one corner of the table.” The shift from expectation to possibility makes the task feel less daunting and more manageable.

3. Move Toward the Light

If you can, open a window or step outside for even a moment. Letting natural light touch your face can do wonders for lifting your mood and nudging you forward. It’s a simple way to remind yourself that the world is still turning, and you’re still part of it. 

4. Use the “Two-Minute Rule”

Pick something you can do in two minutes or less. Write down one thought in your journal, send a quick text to a friend, or tidy up one small spot. Limiting the time makes it easier to start without the weight of a long to-do list hanging over you. 

5. Anchor Yourself in Something Familiar

When energy feels low, turn to something familiar that brings you comfort… a favorite song, a cozy weighted blanket, or a well-loved book. These small anchors can provide just enough stability to help you take the next step, no matter how small. 

6. Give Yourself Permission to Go Slow

On low-energy days, it’s easy to feel frustrated with yourself for not moving faster. But taking things slow isn’t a failure… it’s a kindness. Remind yourself that it’s okay to take your time. Progress doesn’t have to be quick to be meaningful. 

7. Visualize the Next Step… Not the Whole Day

Instead of looking at everything ahead, focus on the very next step. What’s the one thing you can do right now? Visualize yourself doing it… getting out of bed, taking a shower, or making a cup of coffee. Breaking it down into smaller pieces makes it feel more manageable.

8. Celebrate Every Step, No Matter How Small

Did you stand up? Take a sip of water? Send that text? Celebrate it. Acknowledge that you took a step, and remind yourself that even the smallest effort matters. Each step you take is a testament to your resilience, even on the hardest days.

Moving Forward, One Tiny Step at a Time

On days when energy feels out of reach, remind yourself that you don’t have to do it all. Start small, go slow, and give yourself grace for every step you take. Even the tiniest movement forward is proof that you’re showing up for yourself… and that’s something worth celebrating.

If you’re looking for more support or encouragement, our community is HERE for you! You don’t have to navigate this alone. 

Jen Miller

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